checkin' out chicks

it's nice to know that you are aware of these things... mahaALLAH!!! to lower your gaze you guys are really necessary... hmmm. so that, women out ther have less sins to.. most of the ladies there, "It's not our fault to be born pretty!" ahehehe. but hey, ther's no excuse... we are here in this world to obey ALLAH alone. it's our obligation to seek islamic knowledge and practice it ASAP... be a well practicing muslim.... hmmmmmm. all guys don't have to lower thier gaze IF ONLY all women are wearing thier HIJAB...! mashaALLAH.AMeen.........

that's an awesome analogy brother, masha'allah. so true... difficult, but worth the struggle.

like i was telling you in the car, women are bought, in a sense, we're the most expensive creatures, economically and emotionally. my love don't cost a thing, but my maintainence sure does. i mean, hey, ur my bro n at the mo. ur buying me all my stuff and dealing with me and my nutty personality flaws.im expensive, no?and its a perfect metaphor. if you're taking it literally, u need to lower your ego and ponder a tick. if you have not the means to attain, why look, it just makes u want it more. if you don't have money, why go shopping? If you don't have a job, you're in no place to look for a wife. Islam tells us to marry when we are ABLE to, that means spiritually as well as financially.

BlueSajeda (05 Dec 2007, 5:28 am): I'll take four. Please hold the onions and have them on a to-go box. Thank you.See?  My point exactly.

I'll take four. Please hold the onions and have them on a to-go box. Thank you.

Sorry to go against the flow, But I do not like your metaphor. I do however get the point and agree with it a 100%. Women are not to be bought, and if you use a metaphor like that it gives men "permission" to view them as such.

Coolest metaphor EVER.

Lower my gaze.. InshaAllah

This is confusing really!* Nazar is a sin and it is not good for the heart from prophet pbuh saying "مع کل نضره‌ حرام نکت نکة سوداء فی القلب،،،، اذا خض البصر و قلت لا اله‌ الا الله‌ نکت نکتة بیضاء فی القلب ای الایمان یزيد  " who ever make a sin of nazar "haram look" a black dot will be palced on their heart! , but if they lower thier gaze and say astaghfeAllah or LailahailaAllah a white dot will be placed on their heart(increase of faith)   * We all agree on that thank Allah, I hope we do practise it ameen * The confusing bit! lol  I did not know it, that women are for sale and I need money to buy one lol.... who cares about money???? Only the one who got money in their heart!!!* Allah SWT says " " إِنْ يَكُونُوا فُقَرَاء يُغْنِهِمْ اللَّه مِنْ فَضْله" "  meaning :"32. Marry those among you who are single, or the virtuous ones among yourselves, male or female: if they are in poverty, Allah will give them means out of His grace: for Allah encompasseth all, and he knoweth all things". Light 32* Brothers & Sisters let's study islam! practise it, Allah help us ameen.* I hope our heart reamins for Allah swt and nothing else gets there niether Money nor worlds! Ameen

asalaamu alaikum, good point.....I try my best to lower my gaze, I say to myself alhamdulillah if I see a beautiful woman, and I say to myself astaghfirallah after the first look.....because the beauty comes from none other than Allah.....