assalamu alaikum,
well it finally happened. I had been trying for years to convince my hubby to come with me to get marriage counseling. he refused saying he didn't want anyone knowing our business and it finally deteriorated to the point of no return. so, i am back in NC where I grew up, with my daughter, in my first apartment on my own for the first time. i dont know how to explain to my daughter what's going on :(
As salaam alaikum. I am grieved to hear of Muslim's divorce, as divorce is hated by Allah. Marriage is the foundation of civilazation and it is increasing under assault by the enemy. We cannot know the full circumstances under which people succumb to divorce. However, it is wise to note that the natural roles have been altered for both male & female. Reversing the natural roles for the sexes has not replaced the "nature" of the sexes. The man still laments if he cannot provide for his family, and the woman cannot give consolement to a man who does not make her feel secure. We pray for you sister, and for all who are travailing on the same path. - Amin.
salaam alaikum ummNadia :)
May Allah make it easy for u both. in shaa Allah semoga semua baik2 aja. ameen.
I just wonder how old is your daughter? I have an older brother that went through a similar situation he has a 8 year old and a 5 year old. He ended up with custody of his children. for such along time he begged to his wife to marriage counsel but she was the same as your husband. Its so true so hard on the little ones. He just tried the best he could to explain what had happened. Hopefully your husband can change his mind and decide to go. I pray things will be better for you and your daughter.
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Assalamu'alaikum, I dont know what your problem in your marriage really are. But remember my sist, what the children feel if their parents divorse (Hopely this not happen to you :) ). Sometime the children can feel if their parent have a problem even they are not being told. Always pray to Alloh, cause its easy for Alloh to change people hearts.
May Alloh give you a strengh and give you the best solution,Amin.