Marriage : The Most Important Emotional Needs

As salam alaikum today i want share something with you.. The Most Important Emotional Needs Let's work and try to discover what spouses could do for each other that would make the largest Love Bank deposits. "What could your spouse do for you that would make you the happiest?" When you were married, you and your spouse both promised to care for each other, and you expected that care from each other. You were in love, and you were highly motivated to make each other happy. But it might not have occurred to you at the time that if you didn't care for each other the right way, you might lose your love for each other. And along with your loss of love, you might lose your willingness to care for each other. At the time, you probably did not know what caring for each other the right way meant. You thought that your commitment to care for each other would be sufficient to sustain your love. And today, you might still be in the dark as to what it takes to care for each other the right way. If that's the case, let us work together to explain to what care in marriage is: For me i found to care the right way, you must make large Love Bank deposits. And I've found that the best way to make those deposits is to meet each other's most important emotional needs. What is an emotional need? It is a craving that, when satisfied, leaves you with a feeling of happiness and contentment, and, when unsatisfied, leaves you with a feeling of unhappiness and frustration. There are probably thousands of emotional needs. Some have them, some don't. If you feel good doing something, or when someone does something for you, it's meeting an emotional need. But not all emotional needs are created equally. When some are met, you may only feel comfortable--they make small Love Bank deposits. There are others, however, that can make you feel downright euphoric when met. In fact they make you so happy that you're likely to fall in love with the person that meets them. I call those our most important emotional needs because, when met, they make the largest Love Bank deposits of all. And those are the very same emotional needs that a husband and wife expect each other to meet in marriage. I have found that this 10 Emotions needs are the most important one : 1 - Affection 2 - Sexual Fulfillment 3 - Conversation 4 - Recreational Companionship 5 - Honesty and Openness 6 - Physical Attractiveness 7 - Financial Support 8 - Domestic Support 9 - Family Commitment 10- Admiration My advice to married people, try to identify each other's most important emotional needs, and learn to meet them. Inshallah next time i'll detailed every emotion need. So waiting your participation :biggrin: