salaam to all my Bro&Sis in ISLAM; Salaam ALLAHI 'alayekom wa rahmatuho wa barakatuh
First of all: I'm not a scholar not I'm sheikh.
Secondly: I dont want to critics anyone; or to tell you what to do, I'm not imposing my way of taking
I'm just a Muslim bro who want to just give advice (just like our beloved prophet has say) so if I made any error please tell me.
To explain were the 'haram' parts:
1. Laughing loudly
Everybody now that laughing loudly is bad manner, and they are people who laugh loudly just so other people see them " hey, look at me I'm laughing hahahahha "; they just want to show of. And if something that has spread in people, the scholar has the right to put an end it.
I'm not talking about the fact that we laugh like crazy when we watch a funny show or hear a funny story, but we have to stop a our self so that it dont became a habit.
2. Dancing (( with or without music))
If you do it between girls only, no boys allowed, or between "the husband & his wife", no stranger allowed, so that it doesn’t charm people.
And dont forget that anyting that make us forget to whorship ALLAH is not good for us.
3. Singing (( with or without music))
If you sing a haram music, like the music we hear this days in televesion and radio, that is haram.
Dont forget the two "malakayen" who write anything we say and do.
4. Drawing
Drawing is not haram if we dont want the perfection (especialy thing who have a soul in it), like when we draw a human body we want it to be like the real one.
5) Jeans (( no matter HOW baggy or modest))
Jean for girl is not good ( I'm not going to say haram, but it's not good )
It's a habit who has been make for boy not for girl then people has make it so girl can wear it, & also jean can make the form of the body exposed. And it's haram for girl to exposed their body or just to show the form of their body; that why wearing a skirt is preferable, long one.
6) Nasheeds
I didn’t hear anyone telling nasheeds is haram
7) Acting (( no matter what the movie/play is about))
I didn’t hear anyting about this matter; I'll searsh ( insha' ALLAH )
8) Expressing extreme joy or sadness
I didn’t hear anyone telling nasheeds is haram
And if anyone did this he have to study the suna more
9) Seeing your spouse naked (( wth??))
I heard some people saying it's haram, but this has been corrected by oder and good sheikh ( jazahum ALLAH khayeraa' )
10) Not wanting to be in a polygamous marriage (( regardless of whether you're male or female))
I also heard some people saying it's haram, but this has been corrected by oder and good sheikh ( jazahum ALLAH khayeraa' )
The wife has the right to tell her husband that she dont want him to marry other women, she has to specify before the "nikah" a condition of nikah.
Yes; Islam is not complex. It is easy to understand and considering anything enjoyable to be haram doesn't make you a better muslim.
BUT just look at the state the UMMAH is now, and tell me the scholar have no right to be strict in some matter.
May ALLAH guide as so that we dont lose to path to his JANNAH.
And may ALLAH bless all Muslim in the world
Wa salaam.
From your BRO who just want ISLAM&Muslims to glow again
THANKK U!!