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Last holiday season my three-year old son, Zain, innocently asked me, "Mommy, what is Santa bringing me for Christmas?" I should have known that question was coming. After all, I sent him to preschool at a Baptist church in Atlanta. He attended chapel every Monday and said blessing before lunch every day. Once when he was two, he waddled over to me and told me in his toddler voice, "Jesus is Love."

The question about Christmas and Santa was particularly unsettling because we are Muslim. I didn't know how to explain to Zain that we don't celebrate Christmas. I didn't want to say the wrong thing and scar him forever or make him feel like a leper. Clearly he heard about Christmas at his school. I didn't want him to feel awkward or different from his classmates — even though he is.

Thoughts were racing through my head. Should I tell him Santa is coming and bringing him presents if he is a good boy? After all, isn't Christmas a consumer holiday devoid of any religious associations at this point? What was the harm in putting up a tree and buying the kid a few presents just to make him happy? Although Muslims exchange gifts during their two major holidays, both known as Eid, neither holiday is nearly as commercial as Christmas is in the West.

I thought back to my childhood when my parents, Palestinian immigrants, used to celebrate Christmas just like a typical American family. We decorated a Christmas tree, hung up stockings, and put up lights around the house. My parents even convinced us that Santa was real. On Christmas Day, we gathered around the fireplace and opened presents and wondered how Santa fit down the chimney. I always knew we were a Muslim family, but I never considered Christmas a Christian holiday that was contradictory to our Muslim faith.


Read the full story: http://www.babble.com/Would-having-a-tree-betray-our-faith-A-Very-Muslim-Christmas-Hadeel-Masseoud/




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valerius

valerius valerius is offline
1 year ago

So the kids who are living in a multicultural environment are taught about different religions. I can see why people are so outraged with their comments and I'm sad to say, it doesn't surprise me one bit. To be brute and honest it doesn't speak very highly about you.

socialist1

socialist1 socialist1 is offline
1 year ago

This is a problem with having interdominational schools. Some see intergration as a good thing on the other hand it means mixed religions and values. The kids must be confused.

socialist1

socialist1 socialist1 is offline
1 year ago

I think now sister after these comments Allah is guiding you to the right path. Do not be to hard on yourself. Life is all about learning.

hima

hima hima is offline
1 year ago

we experience the same when growing up ...... it did not make us lesser muslims ... if anything it made us more tolerant ....

Kayrou

Kayrou Kayrou is offline
1 year ago

all i can say is extremely poor parenting.
first off from what i read the mother has to learn a lot more about islam.

and why does the boy go to a christian school?

miss_curious

miss_curious miss_curious is offline
1 year ago

Wow, sister for gods sake just be honest to your son he doesnt deserve this from you, its really sad to hear that you make your son go through what your parents went through with u. Celebrating christmas or even anything associating with it such as giving out christmas cards and presents is haram. God gave us eid ul adha and eid ul fitr nothing more or less and we should stick to that and stop running to another religions teachings of how to celebrate and c'mon sis how can u be having second thoughts about tellin ur son about santa cluas forgod sake thats the biggest lie ever that contradicted the christian faith who btw tuaght christians not to lie!!! joookkeee!!!

Zulqarnain

Zulqarnain Zulqarnain is offline
1 year ago

santa claus giving presents??? hahaha lol. who the hell is santa claus??? im very sure his existance is as real as griffin or a 5 headed snake. sorry, but i just find this santa claus character is hilarious. hes more to a clown character i think. reindeer, chimney, haha damn funny. all the house in my region do not have chimney anyways.

tell your child santa doesnt exist. even if he does, hes dead. your child should idol the prophet instead a clowny character!!!

siecantik

siecantik siecantik is offline
1 year ago

how old ur daugher ismi? im sure if shes above 5, shes understand but how about bellow 5? its hard cause they didnt understand really...

IcePick

IcePick IcePick is offline
1 year ago

dang...sending a muslim kid to a church school...why? that would not even be last resort for me dude...

ismi

ismi ismi is offline
1 year ago

Salaama to all. My daughter went to a Church of England Primary school. She joined in worship and even church. But because she knew she is a muslim, it did not bother her about christmas, tree or exchanging gifts. We never had a tree at home. I think it is important to be open and honest to children from a young age to aviod confusion.

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