an argument with me lol

bismillah

woooooooooooooooo hoooooooooooooooooo

whats better then being single

And of every thing We have created pairs: That ye may receive instruction

yeah yeah i know but until my other half bumps into me im as single as single can be

im not a pringle so im not looking to mingle

man i dnt think u understand me

being single i dnt have to instruct or argue about the correct implementation of deen

or be called harsh or extreme because im trying to lead my family on the path of those i proceed

but all my wife wants to do is the opposite of me

i dnt have to explain how music is harahm or worry that when i am away its being played in my home

dnt have to explain the obligation of wearing the hijab even though Allah has already covered that

dont have to hear i dnt make enough money because she wants to get clothes that will bring envy or be drenched in jewelry 

dont have to worry about arguing why i spend so much money helping the masjid as if i dnt provide for my fam first with more then enough

i dont have to worry about hearing the latest gossip in the community or try and get her to understand that she is listening to back biting

i dnt have to explain how her actions should mimic her speech how her tongue should speak of Allah and her actions do the same thing

i dnt have to deal with the fact that me looking at myself and my faults before i come to her first being mistaken as me being weak which only adds fire to the gasoline  

  Marry those among you who are single, or the virtuous ones among yourselves, male or female: if they are in poverty, Allah will give them means out of His grace: for Allah encompasseth all, and he knoweth all things.

i know i know but u dnt understand ahkee

i dnt have to explain why we cant have a nikah that resembles the kafas in anyway

or explain a thousand times that thing u love u will be with on judgement day

or having kufar as a friend is not good in any way

or explain it is best to give dawah and keep moving or explain what u are of the religion of your friend means

or explain why i would not mind that she works should she want to but it shouldnt be with a company where men and women mix freely

i dnt have to hear why dnt u go some where u always around me

acting like im about to do something wrong and u ready to pounce on me as oppose to i enjoy her time affectionately

i dnt have to explain why we shouldnt watch so much tv or allow the kids to do the same thing

i dont have to show her how to wear the kimar correcly or hear her complain about it makes her sweaty

i dnt have to argue with her about the ribba in her business dealings or why she shouldnt do business with men

i dnt have to worry about explaining why it is better to read the noble quran with hadith as commentary as oppose to yusef ali whos commentary is weak

dont have to convince her that being out after maghrib is not permissible for her or hear im trying to make her a prisioner or oppress her regardless of the sound and authentic evidence given to her

i dnt have to explain why its not permissible for her to travel for more then a days journey without her mahrahm

marriage is a sunnah of mine and whoever does not follow my sunnah is not of my followers get married because i will display your outnumbering the other nations on the day of resurrection whoever has the wealth should get married and whoever does not should fast because fasting is a restraint of desire for him /ibn majah reported by a'ishah radi allahu anha

verliy by Allah i fear Allah and revere him better that any of you yet i fast some days and break my fast on others i pray part of the night and sleep the other part and i marry women. so anyone who dislikes my sunnah is not a follower of me/al-bukhari,muslim and others reported by anas raddi allahu anhu  

Allahs messenger sallahu alayhi wasallum prohibited abstinence from marriage repoted by sa'd bin abi waqqas and samurah bin jundub radyi alahu anhuma

maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan  dannnnnnnnng ahk why u gota be so harsh wow ok but but see u still dnt und............. so ahk do u know a sister looking for a husband and is she upon the haqq or willing to learn

jazakullah for the time u took to read a reminder to myself first and foremost asalamu alaikum warahmatullah